When you're into a relationship with someone ... and you need to "fix" something all the time ... your place is not there anymore. And ... sooner or later ... you'll just have to admit it ....  by romanian author Adrian Dumitru

When you're into a relationship with someone ... and you need to "fix" something all the time ... your place is not there anymore. And ... sooner or later ... you'll just have to admit it ....  by romanian author Adrian Dumitru

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I've tried to "fix" many people into my life.

I've done that many, many times.

... but especially in my love relationships.

And guess what?!

Yes ... i've failed.

I've failed big.

Not only one time.

Most probably ... hundreds of times.

Unfortunately ... i've not realised it is wrong ... all what i was doing.

In fact ... my intuition whispered me something ... but ... i've ignored all.

Yes ...

Well ... until .... I felt that i am ruining all my energies ... in

 

this process of "fixing" ... people.

The paid price .... was huge.

Cause ... i was really feeling that ... i am destroying myself.

Day by day.

And days became weeks.

Weeks ... became months.

And ... months years.

So ... it was ... all wrong.

My behaviour ... was wrong.

I had to change.

But .... I couldn't.

Yeah .... I couldn't stop myself ... to try "fixing" people.

It was all like ... a hobby.

And ... sometimes ... as an obsession.

Fortunately... today ... i know all that is wrong.

I know that trying to "fix" people is a stupid thing .... and i must just stop myself doing it.

Well ...

The only trick .... I've found was to disconnect from those people i try to illusory "fix" ... "repair" ...

Yes ...

I see my stupid tendencies ... so the next second ... i just stop myself ... disconnecting by force from that person.

Most certainly for me ... trying to change people is ... an addiction.

... a big one.

So .... same as a person addicted to drugs .... I try to stay away of "my drugs" ...

It's probably ... the best solution.

 

... to disconnect and run away of all those people ....

 

 

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